Is this cheating?

Is it cheating that my bride and I keep checking our online registries to see what gifts have been purchased for you us so far?  We have another shower coming up this weekend and we’ve been checking all three of our list to see what’s missing.  Then we play a game to try and guess who bought us what from the list.  So far we have one shower down and 3 coming up in weeks to follow.  We’re going to my folks house this weekend for a shower my fam is throwing, then I’m invited to a couples shower, and then Melissa has one final shower in Birmingham.  In case any of my loyal readers out there want to surprise me with a gift, we’re registered at Bed, Bath, and Beyond, Target, and Dillard’s.  So far we haven’t gotten anything from the Dillard’s registry. 
Since we’re talking about showers, Melissa had a shower last weekend thrown by her Step Mother, and two other friends of family.  We went to Birmingham for the event, I did some yard work with her father, and he and I went to Cracker Barrel for lunch during the shower.  We got some fun stuff and we couldn’t wait to get home and admire our new goodies.  When we arrived home we were shocked to find just how hot our house was.  At some time over the weekend while we were gone our A/C unit quit.  The third summer in a row that we’ve had to call a repair man.  Turns out our line to drain the condensation got pinched so the drain pan filled up, triggered the safety and killed our system. 
In other wedding news, we have the tuxes picked out.  I go for my groom’s fitting next Friday.  This is just to make sure that we like the colors and style of tux we chose and make sure everything fits me.  I was very hurt when they measured my waist and told me I wear a 41 inch waist.  There is NO WAY that is right!  I told them to order me a 36 because I am NOT wearing a 41 inch pant.  I guess I’m about to have to get off my arse and do something incase they weren’t lying to me about my pant size.